“How does a disease not only affect the sick person,
but also your surroundings?”


It’s about my mom, the cancer, and myself.
Pointing out the things I experienced before, during, and after I had thyroid cancer in 2019, and how this affected the relationship between me and my mom. How important my mother was to me during that time when I had no one else. 

I wrote a handwritten letter. 
And my mom wrote me a letter back.

In this artwork, exploring the profound bond between my mother and me. Despite the limitations of expression, I've come to value the power of heartfelt writing and its ability to reveal emotions and perspectives.

Reading my mother's letters, I discovered a shared capacity for growth and adaptation, particularly in the aftermath of illness. This project emphasizes the overlooked challenges in the recovery process and the importance of vulnerability in fostering personal development.

The artwork captures the unspoken yet impactful connection between us, celebrating the strength found in vulnerability and shared experiences.
-2021 December, Ghent/Belgium-  


ANSWER FROM MY MOTHER:

This audio recording offers a heartfelt insight into a challenging chapter in a mother and child's life. The narrator, the mother of the individual who penned a heartfelt letter, shares her personal experiences during her child's illness with candor and vulnerability.

The audio demonstrates the enduring strength of a mother's love and the profound impact of a child's illness on a parent. Listeners can expect to be deeply moved as the mother navigates through the emotions, challenges, and triumphs of caring for her sick child.

This recording showcases a mother's unwavering dedication, love, and resilience during a trying time in her family's life. It serves as an intimate dialogue between a parent and child, emphasising the significance of open communication and understanding within families.

Whether you're seeking insight into the power of love and communication or have experienced a similar journey, 'A Mother's Reflection' promises to resonate and inspire its audience.